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How To Be Mysterious

September 5, 2013 · In: Happiness, Uncategorized

Guest Post by: Tracey Colaianni (my sister)

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I’ve been described as a “woman of mystery” by some (my sister) and “so freaking awesome it actually concerns me” by others (myself). There are also those who consider me to be a bit “mischievous” (sister…again). So, when I was asked to post here, on my sister’s blog during her EPIC European eloping, I really wasn’t sure how to proceed with such a lofty reputation preceding me.

So, sticking to the theme that was also my childhood nickname, let’s keep it “dark and mysterious.” And yes, this phrase was my nickname since I was a toddler so when I talk about perplexing things, you know I know my enigmas. Or do you? I’m not sure if you do…or am I? (Sorry, it’s 3 am.)

There are many ways to increase your mysteriosity. (Bam! New word! You never know what’s going to happen next!)

I first recommend trying to come up with new words. My sister is very good at this. After I had my hair dyed very dark (and mysterious), I asked her if it made my eyes pop. She casually glanced up at me before loudly crowing, “Pop-a-doodle-doo!” Mystery maintained.

Another really great way to keep them guessing is to apply a sexy, temporary mole on your face with a dab of eyeliner. But don’t stop there. Be sure to change the mole’s location every few days. And for the advanced level, if you truly want to mystify, slowly increase its size over the span of a couple years. If you invest the time, it’s a great way to meet a hot doctor who loves puzzling mysteries (Dr. House).

Finally, you can never go wrong with classic gestures of coyness. The hand fan has been a tool for increasing mysteriousity for ages. Simply hold it close to your face and fan gently. Remember, you’re not cooling your face, you’re getting sexified in a really perplexing but probably (possibly?) effective way. Keep the lower half of your face covered and hold the pose for a moment. Then, finish by voluntarily dilating your pupils. If you do not have a hand fan, almost anything can work:

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However, it does help if the object/dog you are using doesn’t look so irritated by being used as a prop.

Thanks for joining me on this guest post! Let me know if you have any tips or tricks to make yourself more sultry, more sexy, more dark and mysterious.

(featured image at top by A___ R_, via Flickr, edited by me)

By: Christina Warren · In: Happiness, Uncategorized · Tagged: how can I seem more mysterious, I want to be more mysterious

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🚩Save this for those overwhelming days when you 🚩Save this for those overwhelming days when you need a reset ↓

💫 These 3 micro habits made a real difference for me.

1. ❤️ ⚡️I have been practicing @heartmath ’s heart coherence exercise. A 90 second way to connect to your heart and get out of your head. Put your hand on your heart I like to close my eyes and start breathing into my heart space.  slow down your breath. Start to think of something or someone that you feel great gratitude for and focus on that feeling as you breathe into your heart space. Once I’m connected to that feeling of gratitude, I ask God to guide me in whatever area I’ve been overthinking. I get a really clear and simple answer and focus on that throughout the day.
Great technique I learned about through @the_human_design_coach 

It’s more about how to be and not all about what to do. 

2. ☀️I have loads of energy but only when I’m doing things that I’m excited about and that can include chores! I just have to spin it so it’s fun for me.

3. 🌖 Letting my menstrual cycle guide how I organize my energy through the month has been a huge permission slip and guiding light for when I need to rest, and when I am super creative or clearheaded for organizing.

#momlife #momhacks #motherhoodunplugged #mommentalhealth #anxiousmom #perfectionism #overthinker #calmingpractices #motherhoodwellness #momstress #selfcarefirmoms #mindfulparenting #momtips #dailyreset #nervoussystem #momstruggles #ambitiousmom #momwellness
🐫 Tag a mama who needs to hear this. You’ve h 🐫 Tag a mama who needs to hear this. You’ve heard of balance…

I tried it.
It stressed me out. 🤣
Then I realized: I don’t need to “balance it all” daily.

I can store up joy and energy like a camel.🥰

Go big one day, go birth control robe or the park for the rest.

It’s an energy strategy.

That’s camel mom energy. 🐫
Anyone else relate?

My best friend from college (and the Navy) and I went to see Diana Krall downtown this week and it was a dream come true. I don’t go out too often but I enjoy this camel life.

Comment ENERGY to get an even more personalized mom energy reading.

#teammotherly #motherhood #momlife #momenergy #parentsmagazine #todayparents #mom
🚩Save this Feminine Cycle Syncing Schedule👇 🚩Save this Feminine Cycle Syncing Schedule👇

Why I Stopped Pushing Through—and Started Syncing With My Cycle.
My energy changed a lot after 40.

I started noticing how often I was frustrated for being “off”—when really, my body was just in a different phase of its natural rhythm.

✨ When I gave myself permission to follow it instead of fight it, everything shifted.
Not just my productivity, but my peace.

Here’s what that looks like for me as a creative mom who still has big goals—but honors her energy instead of ignoring it:

🌑 Menstrual (Days 1–5)
→ Rest. Reflect. Retreat.
What I allow: Canceling the extras, cuddles, quiet meals, journaling, soft podcasts, total permission to be still.

🌱 Follicular (Days 6–13)
→ Fresh starts. Planning. Creativity.
What I lean into: New ideas, organizing, writing, dreaming up what’s next.

🌕 Ovulatory (Days 14–17)
→ Connection. Communication. Confidence.
What I schedule: Friend dates, family outings, big conversations, batch errands, showing up.

🍂 Luteal (Days 18–28)
→ Discernment. Deep work. Cozy nesting.
What I focus on: Prepping, cleaning, saying “no,” creating comfort, finishing strong before I rest.

—
Even in perimenopause or menopause, your energy has rhythm.
It’s not all in your head. It’s in your body—and it’s wise.
✨ You don’t need to be perfect. Just aware.
—
📌 Save this for when you want to check in with your body.

👇
Do you already notice these shifts in your month? Has this helped you trust yourself more?

🌟 PS: If you want to go even deeper and understand your unique energy blueprint (beyond your cycle), DM me the word ENERGY and I’ll send you something beautiful.

#cyclesyncing #motherhood #creativehappylife #humandesign
#menstrualcycle #femaleenergy #momlife #mothermag #parentsmagazine #todayparents #mindbodygreen
🏃‍♀️ I was on such a fast track: Right ou 🏃‍♀️ I was on such a fast track:
Right out of college, I was headed to Naval flight school — and then just as quickly, I was kicked out for being too short to fly.

The very next day, I was driving from Pensacola to Newport, Rhode Island to learn how to drive ships and run engineering departments.

My whole life, I associated speed with ambition.
The faster I moved, the more successful I thought I was becoming.

But motherhood changed me.
It introduced me to a different kind of ambition — a quieter kind.
A kind of ambition that’s measured in presence, not promotions.

In how well I manage my energy, not how many tasks I check off-(I relearn this so many times and each time I get back on track quicker- 👋 Generators).

In the kind of role model I am becoming — not just what I am achieving.

Slowing down and living in my energy didn’t erase my ambition.
It refined it.

When I honor my energy,
there is still room for my personal dreams too.

Your kids won’t be little forever.
The woman you’re becoming will be with you for a lifetime.

Slowing down isn’t falling behind — it’s finally running your own race.

❤️ This if you’re learning how to live in tune with your energy — and still hold space for your dreams.

Comment TYPE and I’ll show you your energy type.

#motherhood #humandesign #ambitiouswomen  #momlife
👇Your burnout type + cure.⛳Save this for when 👇Your burnout type + cure.⛳Save this for when you are at the end of your rope (or hopefully before). 

I asked ChatGPT Unhinged to decode mom burnout + the cure for each Human Design Type—and WOW. Every word hit like a cosmic slap AND a hug.

⚡Generator
🧨 Burnout: Saying yes to everything for your kids and the a lady you just met like it’s your job, crying in the Costco lot clutching an empty Starbucks cup like it holds the secrets of the universe
💡 Fix: If it doesn’t spark joy like fresh Target home decor, GTFO.
🧘‍♀️ Mantra: “If it’s not a hell yes, it’s a holy no.”
⚡Manifesting Generator
🧨 Burnout: Half-finished everything. Full meltdown. Somehow still packing lunches and launching businesses.
💡 Fix: Pivot like a queen. You don’t owe anyone a tidy ending.
🧘‍♀️ Mantra: “Fast is fine. Unfinished is divine.”
⚡Manifestor
🧨 Burnout: Rage-texting in your head while fantasizing about faking your own disappearance.. Everyone wants updates. Rage levels = dragon-in-a-drive-thru when no one’s listening.
💡 Fix: Inform. Vanish. Return when your spark is back.
🧘‍♀️ Mantra: “I don’t ask—I declare, then go take a nap.”
⚡Projector
🧨 Burnout: Giving TED Talks no one asked for. No one sees you. You Google “jobs for tired geniuses.”
💡 Fix: Wait to be chosen. Nap like it’s your side hustle.
🧘‍♀️ Mantra: “I’m not for everyone—I’m for the invited few.”
⚡Reflector
🧨 Burnout: You’ve become everyone. Forgot yourself. Agreed to weird events you spiritually object to.
💡 Fix: Cleanse. Moonwatch. Yeet other people’s energy out.
🧘‍♀️ Mantra: “I am not your disco ball—I’m the moon.”

Don’t know your type? Comment TYPE and I’ll send you the link.

Inspired by Emma Dunwoody ✨@the_human_design_coach 

#momlife #momburnout #momof4 #humandesignsystem #humandesign #momadvice #honestmom #momoffour

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