Imagine a typical day leading up to the holidays and tell me if you have ever frozen in the middle of a store (or browsing online) and began to spiral: I have no idea what to get so and so for a gift, did I check the stove, omg my zipper is down, did the kids need a carrot or a potato for that school project, when was the last time I ate, are we double booked on Saturday for 2 different holiday parties…? How does this even feel like the holidays? I just want it to be over!
It’s the most magical time of the year if we want it to be and with a few simple mindshifts you can put this season into perspective. By the end of this post, you will be able to go from over-obligation to enjoyment, release Pinterest pressure to see present beauty and stop rushing so you can live in the moment.
From Too Many Choices to Intentional Options
Decision fatigue hits a whole new way during the holidays. There are so many options for activities, crafts, decor, gifting and food.
Pick 3 meals that you really want to savor over these months.
Have a signature gift and give the same one to many people on your list.
Focus on one design vignette in your home like the mantle or front door to pour the most of your creativity. Relax with the rest.
Explore the power of offering limited, curated activity choices to your family.
- Examples of holiday choice pairings to get everyone feeling involved:
- “Tonight we can do hot cocoa and Christmas movies or drive to see lights”
- “We can bake cookies this afternoon or write cards to grandparents”
- “Would you like to help wrap presents or help decorate the tree?”
From Pinterest Pressure to Present Beauty
It is so natural and healthy to want to create beauty. There is nothing wrong in wanting everything to be lovely.
Put your heart into your entertaining and see the beauty you create for what it is right now, not what you had imagined it would be.
Getting caught up in personal disappointments can disconnect us in the moments we want to be most present.
- Find the sweet spot between creating beauty and staying present
- Give yourself permission to let some moments be beautifully imperfect
- Embrace blending beautiful style with the natural chaos of family life
From Scattered to Sacred Moments
Rushing through even the most special traditions can rob us of their magic. Create space for presence. Say yes to less. Keep days on the calendar blank.
Find joy in the small quiet moments between the big events. Simply put on Elf or listen to music while kids color. Coloring is one of my favorite family traditions I started a while back. Honestly they grumble but end up having a great time. HA! The reason I do it is because it slows us down.
You've Got This
You deserve to experience the magic too. Choose just one mindshift to incorporate this season. Embrace the season and give yourself permission to feel less pressure. I am wishing you a great one, friend!
Be sure to download my guide below: Deck the Halls (and keep your chill) for Busy Moms Navigating the Most Wonderful Time of the Year if you want more simple tips for your most centered holiday season.
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