Oh Bachelorette Desiree, you are so incredibly lucky. It took only one quick television episode season for you to break your destructive love patterns. Many people NEVER do! She finally…
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Yes, It Is a Big Deal
What did your parents say to you when you were upset? I was playing with some young children at a summer camp and there was a very young boy surrounded…
Ranting About Your Partner
How do you complain to your friends about your significant other? Things I consider when dealing with discontent: Find confidants to discuss concerns with-bottling up discontent can lead to feelings…
Make an Instant BFF
Making friends can be a beautiful, slow, growing process or you can be BFFs with someone instantly. Try this method. 1. Listen. Be curious, present, interested. 2. Be vulnerable. Share…
Should I Go to Grad School?
Are you contemplating graduate school? I went, loved it, had awesome career opportunities, met some of my best friends and I’ll never regret it. At the same time, I wouldn’t…
What Are Your Perfect Relationship Roles?
The perfect relationship role for you is the one that makes you the happiest. Do you have a good idea of what each person in your ideal relationship does to…
When does a Korean Mom say, “I love you?”
I remember reading an article long ago that talked about when a Korean mom says, “I love you.” It was something like: when you are born, when you graduate from…
Make a Credit Board
We had a “credit board” on our fridge growing up. This arose from my mom’s insatiable need for “credit,” which I inherited. My dad surprised her with a “credit board.”…
What Sign are you Advertising?
Have you ever wanted say, a job, and you kept listing all the things in your head that you wanted: a big corner office, control of your schedule, lots of…